Elody is now 14 months. I still haven't decided to wean her or continue nursing, Hmmmm to wean or not to wean, that is the question of my life right now. She eats food, but only bits-not enough to fill up on. The same goes for a sippy cup of milk. She will take a couple of sips, but not enough fill her. Then when she is tired she comes over to me and asks to nurse, but patting on my chest. This system works right now so.... why fix what's not broken.....why wean her if she is happy with nursing and I certainly don't want to intentionally become fertile again by weaning her. Some tell me that ... she's too old to keep nursing and others tell me ... If it works for both of you, what's the problem, keep nursing until it doesn't. On one hand, I feel depleted and fat. If I wean her, I can keep all my nutrients to myself, my nails will grow back strong, and I can start dieting and start losing weight. On the other hand, I will never get to nurse again, I love nursing my baby. I will be fertile again, I won't have an attractive upper figure anymore - I will look like I did in Junior high in that area, mosquito bites! So.... for now I will keep nursing until I decided different I guess,(which will probably be when I start ovulating again). Any thoughts......